Dec 5, 2021Liked by A Lady on Fire

thank you so much for sharing this. i'm in awe (and tears). i think this is my favorite sentence:

> I’m still coming to terms with the fact that the parents in my head will never exist, and maybe never did.

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Mar 27, 2022Liked by A Lady on Fire

> I had to dig out parts of myself that were long forgotten, that were hidden deep in my memory bank and yet were driving my decisions in the present day like they were in charge of my entire life. I was astonished to realize how much of my life I was living on autopilot because I spent most of my time obsessing about my past and future interactions with my parents.

it really do be like that sometimes huh!

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